Pro

She allowed me to be creative

She knew what I was interested in

She always tried to call or text

She accepted my friends even if they were pretty bad kids

Con

She never punished me for acting like a spoiled brat

She made excuses for me when it came to my arms 

She had bad relationships with men who either didn’t stick around long enough for me to know their names or they were shit to me and her

She became addicted to weight loss pills, smoked and had many other issues she ignored